Of Disappointment vs Encouragement


We were sitting in Lucy and David’s apartment in Falls Church, VA for a little under a half an hour before Lucy begun to share with us their profound story of trusting our faithful God. During their time in Kenya, David and Lucy had seen the unexpected ways God provided for their family and their ministry. They had worked with the local church to provide leadership and discipleship training to local youth. Whether that provision be finances, participants, or a specific need, God had been present in their lives and provision.  Lucy repeated over and over again, “God does not disappoint”.

God does not disappoint (think Romans 5:1-5). Nate and I wrestled with that promise most of the way home. We’d cut our trip short due to an impending snow storm (getting snowed in away from home with Henry and Annie didn’t seem like the best idea for everyone’s well being) and were struggling to not feel discouraged. God does not disappoint. At times, we’d rather have the promise “God blesses your plans” or “God won’t let you fail” or “God will make all your dreams come true”, or at the very least “God will help your toddler sleep in the car”. But instead, God comes to us in the cruciform body of Jesus Christ and proclaims He does not disappoint. He gives us grace for today. And, will extend that same grace tomorrow, but asks us to trust Him today. It is hard to abide in that place of trust, but it is indeed the safest place to rest.


We know that all of our striving and preparation will not amount to anything without God’s provision. We need Him to move in a mighty way. Can you join us in praying and fasting for students and provision? The members of our oversight board, some of our supporters, and the missions committee of our sending church have committed to fast and pray for us on March 28th. Can you fast a meal, or spend your coffee time in prayer? Our greatest needs are for students and financial support. We have so many of the components of Agape Year in place. We don’t have students. Can you pray with us?
Thanks!
Erika, Nate, Henry, and Anne

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Ghost Houses: May The Spirits Be With You

One of the distinctive features Bonnie and I notice wherever we travel is the influence of religious beliefs and practices on the architecture and adornments of the society.  It doesn’t take a genius to figure out whether you’re in a Christian, Muslim, or some other type of society.  Thailand, for instance, represents a religious blend of Buddhism, Hinduism, and animism.  Of course, explicitly religious buildings reflect these various influences but what I’m referring to here is not only temples, mosques, churches, etc.  Representations of Buddha and many Hindu gods and goddesses may be found outside temple precincts.   Animism, however, at least as far as we can tell, is not represented by dedicated buildings as it by  ghost houses found near many homes, apartments, and businesses.

Animism is a belief, and it is a very ancient one, that inanimate objects are imbued with some sort of soul or spirit and, therefore, have the power to harm or bless those who treat these spirits either neglectfully or reverently.  As an example,  one must not step on the threshold of a house because the spirit of the house is thought to reside there and to step on that spirit with  the very shameful and disgusting bottom of one’s foot is not to be done.  For the culturally unaware sometimes signs are posted reminding you of this taboo.  Aside from the spirit of the threshold, many other spirits are found in and around the house, building, business or whatever.  Spirits, like anyone else, need a place to live and one suspects that a preferred option is to have them live at a respectful distance outside the house.  Hence, the very common presence of  ghost houses.  Here are a few examples:

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This one is directly behind us–the view from our balcony.

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Note the offerings of soft drinks with straws.    

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As these pictures show, various offerings of drink, incense, and other gifts are presented to the spirits to solicit their good will.

Naturally, the degrees of piety and wealth suggest greater or lesser ghost houses.  On one of my morning walks I encountered a rare rainfall and sought shelter in the nearest open building which turned out to be a large ghost house dealership.  Below are a few of the offerings ranging in price from 300 dollars to 30,000 dollars US.

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Some available ghost houses–there were many hundreds for sale in this store.

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Modestly priced models–perhaps $300 to $1,000

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Top of the line–$30,000 model.

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This ghost house is on the first floor of the Sangwattana Mansion, the dorm where we live.  It is a Chinese derivation and has a different look including flashing electric lights, like those on  a Christmas tree.

It is difficult to say precisely what an individual Thai might believe.  As I mentioned, many beliefs are found intermingled.  There is a significant Muslim minority and a quite modest (perhaps one percent or so) presence of Christianity.

Sa Wat Dee Krop, Chuck

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Across the Tracks #2 – Pictures

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 Railroad tracks paralleling our nameless street

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A side ditch and walkway

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The domestic water supply along the canal.  Note individual hoses have been attached to holes drilled in the main pipe with water flowing through individual meters.

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A typical outdoor restaurant with cook preparing lunch.

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Here come the motorbikes!

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Thai long-tailed boat.  Note long propeller shaft trailing behind.

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Several of these tiny stores were scattered through the neighborhood.

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Not the bridge over the River Kwai, but it serves its purpose.

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A sacred tree–a Banyan tree like the one under which Buddha achieved Enlightenment.

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Fisherman lifting net hoping for a good catch.  Unfortunately it was empty.

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Fish drying outside a restaurant.

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Store owner not looking happy at the state of business.

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Boat House

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Another store.

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Perhaps the best house south of the freeway.

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Grand patio

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Local hotel–rates probably less than $10 per night

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Across the Tracks

Bonnie and I wish we were able to post somewhat more frequently and comprehensively, but the frustrations of computer technology render our intentions null and void.  I started to write this post (putting up with random shifts of the cursor with predictably chaotic results) when, 200-300 words into this, the whole thing simply disappeared.  The wisdom of the Thais comes into play here:  Mai Bpen Rai–it doesn’t matter.  Be patient.  Don’t worry.  I, regretably am NOT a Thai, so I am writing this out longhand hoping Bonnie can better cope.

Mai Bpen Rai.

Bangkok is a huge and hugely diverse city.  The population is estimated to be 15 million, but how anyone could count this collection of everything from dozens and dozens of high-rise apartments not very far from uncountable thousands of squatter’s shacks, lean-tos and bare shelters is a total mystery.  Our neighborhood (LatKrabang in case you want to look on Google Earth) typifies the situation.  We are about 15 miles east of downtown Bangkok as the crow flies.  If the crow goes by train, cab, or car we’re talking an hour or two at about any time of the day or night.  Traffic is horrendous.

Bonnie and I live in student housing.  Privately-owned dorm rooms with bath is the best way to describe our digs. (Bonnie included photos in our second post.)  Not luxurious, but familiar to any student in a state college or university. There are dozens of these residences with more being built.  Although we live on a dead end street, about a mile from the nearest intersecting street (Chalong Krung Road–again for Google Earth fans) our street can look like the busiest street Orangeburg has ever seen on a Friday night. (I would give you the name of our street if it had one.  We tell cab drivers to take the first street off Chalong Krung)

Amidst all this bustle and modernity one day I decided to head north on a footpath across the railroad tracks which parallel our nameless street.  A different world instantly appeared.

Perhaps 20 yards after crossing the tracks a very basic collection of housing sprinkled with restaurants and stores appeared on my left.  On my right was one of the many canals in Bangkok, this one perhaps 50 feet across and thickly overgrown with water plants in most places.  The pictures say thousands of words so I’ll skip much description.  The elevated foot and motor bike path extends perhaps for the better part of a mile with no other access.  The path and everything else is elevated to avoid submerging in the rainy season.

After crossing under one of the major east-west freeways, land access begins to be possible, and cars make their first appearance.  Commercial operations also appear.  The houses, now higher and drier and accessible now become more permanently built and of obviously much higher value.

How far all this extends, I do not know.  After walking another mile or so in the heat of the day, (always 95 plus or minus), time to get back and clean up to get ready for school and take Bonnie to lunch.  (Food is a whole other topic.)

One must admire the many Thais whom I met along that walk who almost unfailingly greeted me with a smile and also carefully avoided pushing me off the walkway as they passed–very frequently–on their motorbikes– and happily posed for pictures.

Life isn’t always about comfort and ease.

Mai Bpen Rai.

Pictures will be posted separately due to the usual computer glitches.

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What we do

Monday through Thursday from 2 p.m. to 10 p.m.  we spend at the Cornerstone Student Center which is just across the street from our room.  We have three classes each day at 3, 5, and 7.  The students sign up based on the time they have available and we never know how many we are going to get for each class as sometimes they just walk in also.  Most of the time, we team-teach because we don’t have more than 5 students at a time.  If there were more, we’d use the additional classroom and split up or Serene, and sometimes Fr. Lee, might take one of the classes.

The students have been a joy to work with.  They are polite and have a desire to learn.  Most of the time they stay longer than the hour class talking or, in  the evenings,  playing board games which they enjoy very much.  This is fun for Chuck as he likes board games too.  Some do pretty well with English and others struggle a bit. I hope we are helping.  We have different students each day and teach the same lesson each day all week.  Sometimes they ask questions about the U.S. but not often.  Some have mentioned they watch “How I Met Your Mother” which they think is very funny.  We have never watched it.  We ask them a lot of questions about their lives to get them to talk and practice English.

Here are some pictures from the Center:

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Nino and Ploy –they are going to the US to work this summer.

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Pon, Chuck, Nino and Ploy play Settlers of Catan–Nino always wins this one

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Jade, Jay, Syne, Bonnie, Toon, Fon

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Pearl and Run

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Fr. Lee signs up some new students

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 Schop, Noy, Fon, and Drew lost this one to the Monopoly expert, Chuck

Goodbye for today,

Bonnie

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What’s for Dinner?

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Although we eat out most of the time because we have no way to cook in our room, we do shop for snacks, fruit, etc. at the grocery.  There are many interesting choices but we tend to settle for the more familiar items.  On Sunday after church we went to a very large super market in a very large mall.  Take a look at grocery shopping in Bangkok.

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 At the entrance to this grocery story is a memorial to the king.  People stop to acknowledge the now deceased king.  The new king will be crowned next fall, one year after the old king passed away.  These memorials are common as are billboards with the king’s picture, calendars, and other pictures in restaurants and stores.  The Thai people love and honor their king and the royal family.

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Interesting new flavors of potato chips

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Open displays of meat where you can select and bag your own. No DHEC here.

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Out in the mall—Krispy Kreme doughnuts!  We bought some for breakfast.

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Chuck buys fruit from a street vendor.  It is what we have for breakfast most mornings.

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We’re not sure what these fruits are so have not bought any.

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A street vendor is ready to make omelets 

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More street food choices.

There is a big variety of food sold on the streets here.  We’ve been tasting.

Bye for now..

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